It says in this week's parasha, “If a
man is guilty of a capital offense and is executed, you shall hang
him from a tree. Do not leave his corpse overnight on the tree, but
you should surely bury him on that day, for hanging a corpse is an
affront to Hashem...”
Rashi says it's an affront to the King,
because man is fashioned in His image. Rashi gives an example of twin
brothers who look exactly alike. One became a king while the other
was apprehended as a thief and hanged. Everyone who saw him
exclaimed, “The king has been hanged!” [And so the king issued a
command for him to be brought down.]
I feel this is a very important topic
because often we find ourselves making a chillul Hashem, even though
at times, we truly feel we're right!
A specific incident comes to mind; a
“Chareidi” guy in Beit Shemesh saw a young girl wearing something
immodest (or not up to par according to his standards) and
spat on her, and then gave her rebuke.
This incident traveled through the
Jewish world pretty quickly. Everyone was shocked about this
incident! I myself felt a bit of anger when hearing this story. I
thought to myself that that is NOT the way a Jew should act nor
respond. It doesn't matter how she was dressed, he made a stupid
decision on how he's going to go about 'teaching her a lesson'. This
guy certainly should not categorize himself as “Chareidi.” That's
not what the Torah teaches us to do! There are ways to deal with
things, and this definitely was not the right way. Unfortunately
because of his impudent, obtuse action, the media-world reacted
towards all Chareidim maliciously and claimed we're “fanatics”
and behave inappropriately.
I agree this one guy's actions were
inappropriate. But “All Chareidim?” This was the action of one
man. The truth is, we all represent each other! It's
unfortunate that people feel they can take actions into their own
hands without speaking to a well learned Rabbi beforehand. And
because of this, we were all judged as one.
We were all created in Hashem's image. We need to be aware of that at all times. Our actions can either have others praise what a wonderful nation the Jews are or criticize us.
It's no different than someone saying,
“Wow, that child shares so nicely with other kids, I wonder who his
parents are!” Or, “Wow, that child has bad characteristics, he
probably got it from his parents. I'd never let my kids play at his
house!”
We want people to praise Hashem and we
need to give them a reason to do so!
Have a wonderful Shabbos,
Nisso